Complaining

The biggest consequence of complaining is loss. When you complain, you lose time, joy, balance, well-being, and self-love.

Here’s why: your natural state, when connected to your source, is one of joy, balance, and love. Complaining, on the other hand, disrupts this connection. It pulls you away from your true self and from those around you.

Complainers often feel justified in their complaints. They don’t realize that their feelings of dissatisfaction stem from their own perception of life. They believe the external world is responsible for their unhappiness, without recognizing that it’s their view that’s causing the disconnect.

The lesson for those who complain is one of selflessness. In a state of selflessness, there is no keeping score, no feeling of lack, no “not enough.” Selflessness brings joy because, in this state, you are continually filled by the joy you contribute to others. But selflessness isn’t something you can fake—it’s a level of consciousness that you rise into through awareness and love.

You may feel that you don’t have enough time for yourself, but in the selfless state, the concept of time fades away. You become aligned with the “I Am” presence, where your separate self dissolves, and you become the receiver of all that you give. It’s a state of being where satisfaction and fulfillment come from the act of giving, not from needing.

Consider what causes you to complain. It’s often because you feel something is more important than what someone else feels, and you want others to align with your perspective. But in a state of selflessness, there is enough for everyone. When you let go of your resistance or your need to be right, you allow an unrestricted flow from the Divine to enter your life. The Universe already knows what you prefer, and when you stop resisting, what satisfies you will naturally flow to you.

Why do you feel compelled to state over and over what you want? Why does it feel draining to do so? It’s because you are not the one creating what you desire; you are the signal sender. Complaining is a signal that shows you don’t trust the Universe, you’re not fully awake, and you don’t understand that you are already received. You are the only reason you aren’t receiving what you desire.

There is nothing to complain about when you recognize that a perfectly balanced world has been created for you. All you need to do is align with it. You align through self-love, through awareness, and through observing yourself without judgment. This observation will clear the blocks that are preventing flow from reaching you.

Condemning or judging yourself won’t bring connection—it will only create more resistance. Instead, serve yourself by creating space for flow to enter. When you observe without judgment, you allow the Universe to deliver the balance and satisfaction that’s already waiting for you.

-Athena